3 Secrets to Soulful Sexuality using Sacred Connection
We all hear these words and at times wonder what exactly they mean: Sacred, Connection, Soulful & Sexuality. My experience is that they mean different things to different people and that it is worth having a conversation to find out what it is that they mean to me versus what they mean to you.
Here is my definition over many years of fine-tuning, exploration and curiosity.
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Your headshot is your first impression on your online dating profile and arguably the most important part of enticing a more in-depth look at the rest of profile. If you were to list your home for sale, you’d want it to have great “curb appeal” to draw potential buyers inside for a better look. A wonderful headshot gives your profile that curb appeal it needs to magnetize your new love!
The most important thing is to be authentic and up to date with your profile pics. Remember that you will be meeting potential partners in person, so keep it real and always have fun!
Yes polyamorous relationships work and they work extremely well.
Polyamorous relationships can be deep intimate relationships that equal the intimacy of monogamous relationships. In the past 30 years, I have worked with polyamorous couples, groups and singles as well as monogamous ones. The differences are not found in the relationship style, they are found in the ways in which the people involved approach issues, conflict and the resolution of problems, commitment and the relationships themselves.
Some believe that a person can only fully commit to one...
You’re on your favorite online dating site and you come across a profile that really captures your attention. You have tons in common; sense the chemistry could be off the charts and feel guided to contact this person… but wait! They live in another country—a plane flight away! Do you go with your instinct, or do you decide that long distance dating isn’t for you because it's too much of a hassel?
Let’s dive in to this quandary. First off, what if this person is the absolute love of your life? Are you willing to relocate for that kind of love? If not, check their profile to see if they are. Most singles ARE willing to relocate for love, so the odds are in your favor, even if you would like to stay put.
Are you a planner? I am. I love Post-its and daily to-do lists. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of triumphantly scratching things off those lists as goals get accomplished. It feels good to plan for every eventuality.
Expectations can be great for motivation and goal-setting, but when it comes to dating, all bets are off.
Dating is not a linear experience and "dating expectations" can prevent you from getting your heart’s desire.
Here are some sneaky ones to keep one eye...
How has online dating continued to evolve, and what trends do you see now?
When I launched Spiritual Singles back in 2000, there was a huge stigma about meeting someone online. This has completely dissolved as success stories have become so common and most people know someone (or many people) that has met their spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend on an online dating site. It makes sense to have a large pool of eligible singles at your finger tips, rather than hoping to bump into the love of your life at the gym. It’s like shopping online—you can look at many different varieties and styles to find exactly what you are looking for, rather than physically searching store after store hoping to find something you like. By reading in-depth profiles, like we have on Spiritual Singles, members can learn a ton about someone's values,...
2018 (2+0+1+8) is an 11 year. A year of mastery achieved by overcoming the difficulties and challenges at hand. As shown in the story of Job, there is no merit in feeling content when all goes well in our lives. We reach enlightenment through personal efforts, by doing our homework and facing the darker aspects of our personality. This year provides the challenges enabling us to rise above conflicts, find inner serenity and stand in balance and harmony, grounded in the sense of our own power.
YEAR OF THE EARTH DOG
“Spiritual Dating” or “Mindful Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating.
There are no rules or expectations, and it’s about being true to yourself, conscious of the other person and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results. Using these spiritual dating keys, you will find that you are enjoying your encounters with other people in a pure sense and connecting on deeper, more soulful levels.
#1 BE BRUTALLY HONEST:
As a rule, we are not socially conditioned to be honest. We have been taught to protect...
How do we stay positive during times of turmoil and unrest?
Sometimes it can be challenging to keep your vibration high and to stay positive, especially in what seems like great times of change and upheaval, however, staying positive is a key factor in creating the NOW that you choose to experience.
When you can stay calm and in your heart you can help those in need and also benefit the collective consciousness, which we are all a part of. When you silence your mind and connect with the present moment you connect...
Ready Yourself for Love and Know that Attachment is Natural
A mindful, loving relationship creates well-being and joy down to the deepest core of your being. Yes! It’s worth it to aim for an amazing love life - an honest and caring love partnership. When an intimate relationship is fulfilling and safe, life is good. In the research on love and marriage evidence shows that happiness, health, and longevity are the result a secure, emotionally connected relationship.
Bruce Lipton in The Biology of Belief, goes so far as to write, “… self-love and being in a loving relationship ... enhances telomerase activity and promotes a longer and healthier life.” And more scientific data...
Finding the love of your life can be a daunting challenge these days, without having a little help! Most singles on a conscious path are relatively happy and content with their lives; however, they would usually prefer to be in a loving, spiritual partnership with a person that enhances their life and gives them the opportunity to grow and thrive in a deep, spiritual love, making life more even enjoyable!
Incorporating the following tips and techniques will help you to manifest the love of your life in no time!
Get Love: When you love yourself unconditionally, you create and draw loving...
Elizabeth came to me after a painful divorce.
She was not feeling inspired. She was depressed, numb, angry and often confused. She was coping by drinking alcohol and fixating over sit-coms. This was a temporary way to sooth her emptiness and fill her lonely heart. While she felt triumphant in breaking free from a marriage and a life that stifled her, she was also grieving what could have been. She wanted to do life differently now. She called me and shared, “I am re-evaluating my priorities. I’m looking at everything. I feel lost and I need to find myself again.”
Everything had looked quite idyllic for Elizabeth only a year before she found my practice. At 37, she had a handsome wealthy husband, a large custom-built...
The advice about when to have sex when dating is often:
If you are looking for a serious relationship, wait to have sex until you get to know each other. Often what goes along with this advice is a belief that sex does not need to be talked about because it is ‘natural’. My experience as a sex & intimacy coach and a psychologist is that sex may be natural but desires vary widely amongst people.
Many couples have sex before talking about what turns them on. If your desires are kinky, this can cause problems as the relationship progresses. If the first times you have sex, things are decidedly ordinary, your partner can be forgiven if he assumes that...
2-3% of the population falls under the "empath" category. Empaths are highly sensitive people who pick up on the emotions of others. Empaths don't just empathize with people, they are known to actually take on the emotions they sense in others. While being an empath is an amazing and useful gift, it can cause much emotional strain for those who don't know how to protect themselves. This short guide will teach you how to navigate the world as an empath and learn to guard yourself against emotional stress.
Common Types of Empaths
The moons of most empaths are located in a water sign, the most common being Pisces, Cancer, and Scorpio. This is...
Let’s face it. Dating can be daunting in the 21st century. People are so busy that it is hard to find time to connect. Thankfully, the internet makes some of the beginning stages of a search for partners easier. You can join specialised dating sites that seek members who share some of the things you find most important. These sites raise the likelihood that someone you meet will have the qualities or interests you find essential in a mate.
Once you have spent some time getting to know each other online, it’s time to head out on that first in-person date. The anxiety and excitement mix together as you wait to see if that spark is there when you meet in person. After all,...
Question: "I met someone I feel so close to, but we are going through a lot of ups and downs.
How do I know if they are the one for me or not?"
Good question! Even though I was blessed with a flash of inspiration and my husband and I both KNEW right away that we were perfect for each other, this isn’t always the case.
In fact, surveys have revealed that only about 12% experience “love at first sight” and less than 30% know their partner is right for them on their first date. Most people respond that they know “after a couple of weeks”...
I have truly been moving through many deep levels and layers of healing, following the passing of my mother last March.
People often describe a complete transformation taking place in their lives after the death of someone close. Something about death causes you to reach deeply into your soul – as I said when my sister passed away over 4 years ago, your “heart gets broken open.”
Although my relationship with my mother was very...
Rest, Rejuvenation and Romance:
Use Feng Shui in your bedroom to attract a lover or strengthen your relationship:
Are you looking to attract a lover?
Perhaps you would like to strengthen your romantic relationship with your partner. In Feng Shui, the bedroom (along with the kitchen and entrance) is one of the three most important areas of a home. If you are struggling to find the love of your life, constantly fighting with your partner, or simply waking up exhausted every morning, the layout and colors of your bedroom may be contributing to these circumstances.
Create a Peaceful...
The following is a vision that I received in October, 2011. It came to me in the evening before going to sleep while lying in bed. It was if I was actually there, living it. I don't know what created this mass awakening, however, it was very vivid and beautiful. When I came back to this realm I took copious notes in my iphone which was on my night stand. After meditating the morning of 11/11/11, I felt guided to share this vision with our members in the form of a mass email. I got sooooo many responses from that email that I decided to post it on the site. I feel that this vision is waking up deep seeded cellular (and probably DNA) memories for those that read it, feel it and connect with it. I share this with unconditional love and a knowingness that we are all FAMILY. In-JOY!
Here is the vision I was given:
Everyone on the planet...