Hi, I’m Julia.
A soft but fierce mother of two, intuitive, creative, and a woman who's done the deep work to heal, and still evolving. I’m not here for surface. I’m here for real connection.
Presence, purpose, and emotional depth are non-negotiables for me.

I value honesty, emotional regulation, and a shared desire to grow, not just for the sake of achievement, but alignment. I’ve learned how to honor fear without letting it control me. I’m not afraid to walk alone, but I’m ready for a man who can walk beside me, with awareness, with intention, and with heart.

Yes, I’m open to more children, but only with someone who’s safe, conscious, and grounded.
I don't need saving. I need someone who’s saving themselves too.

If you’re calm in your spirit, playful in your heart, and rooted in something deeper than ego, I’m listening. 🖤

Go big or go home 🏠

1. Emotionally Mature & Present
He’s done his own inner work. He’s not afraid of feelings, his or mine. He can hold space for my expression without needing to fix, run, or minimize. He respects my sensitivity as a gift, not a burden.

2. Strong but Gentle
He’s protective, not possessive. Grounded, not rigid. He understands true strength is quiet, respectful, and rooted in love. He doesn’t raise his voice to be heard, his integrity speaks for itself.

3. Curious & Self-Aware
He reflects before reacting. He takes responsibility. He wants to learn about me not win me. He’s fascinated by growth, his, mine, and the life I co-create.

4. Purpose-Driven but Family-Oriented
He’s walking a path that matters to him, but never too busy to show up fully for those he loves. He sees parenting as sacred and knows that presence is more important than perfection.

5. Safe Energy
He doesn’t feel like a rollercoaster. His energy is steady. I can breathe around him. He doesn’t perform consciousness, he embodies it. I feel seen as I am not for what I do or how i look.

6. Playful & Aligned
He has a sense of humor and playfulness, but not at the cost of depth. He’s spiritually aligned, not dogmatic. He doesn’t need to talk about “vibration”, he lives it.

I am grounded in my feminine knowing, soft, powerful, and deeply intuitive. He honors that, not as something to fix or fear, but as something sacred to protect, respect, and rise with.

We’re both devoted to unlearning old programming. We don’t pretend to be perfect, we’re real, aware, and always evolving. Together, we create a life that feels like a sanctuary, for our growth, our peace, and our children.

We speak the truth, even when it’s messy. I don’t shrink myself to keep the peace, and he doesn’t shut down when things get deep. We hold space for each other’s healing, not as burdens but as mirrors. We know that healing isn’t linear, and we walk through it side by side.

There’s no scorekeeping, just reciprocity, presence, and care. We’re not surviving each other; we’re building something bigger, with intention, love, and vision.

We rewrite the old stories, the ones about guilt, control, abandonment, and silence. We choose connection, respect, and emotional freedom.

We laugh, we reflect, we rest, we dream.
This isn’t just partnership, it’s legacy.

Emotional immaturity.
If you shut down, deflect, or refuse to take accountability, I can’t do it. I’ve done too much inner work to go backwards or beg for basic emotional safety.

Avoidance or inconsistency.
If you disappear, breadcrumb, or play games with communication or commitment, that’s an automatic no. I value presence, not pretending.

Dishonesty, even the subtle kind.
Half-truths, withholding, or shape-shifting to impress me? I see through that. I’m not here to fix or fill in the gaps of who someone pretends to be.
Disrespecting my role as a mother.
My children are part of my life, not an obstacle to it. If you don’t show genuine care, presence, and respect for that, you’re not for me.

Unregulated anger or manipulation.
If you lash out, gaslight, or try to control through guilt, silence, or intensity, I’ve been there, I’m not going back.

Stuck in survival mode, no desire to grow.
I can’t be with someone who refuses to evolve. Healing is hard, yes, but if you're choosing comfort over consciousness, we’re on different timelines.

Disconnection from purpose or values.
I’m not interested in surface-level ambition. I want someone who knows who they are, or at the very least is searching for that truth with integrity.

I learned how strong I am, not because I had to be, but because I chose to rise. I’ve learned that I deserve not just partnership, but mutual effort, peace, and protection.

To me, being conscious means being aware, honest, and willing to grow, even when it’s uncomfortable. It’s the ability to pause instead of react, to own your emotions, and to not project your pain onto others. It’s when you actually choose presence over ego, not just talk about it.

Being conscious means you’re not walking through life asleep or just surviving. You’re asking questions. You’re healing patterns. You’re open to truth, even if it shakes the version of yourself you used to identify with.

It’s also not about being perfect. It’s about being real.
Consciousness is how you show up when things get hard, not just when it’s easy.