I usually do the opposite of the "norms". At times I pay to send messages. At other times I wonder the worth of it. Currently I am not paying to send messages.
On rare occasions. Someone towers above the crowd. I may or may not. I have zero problem with paying to talk. Life is to short to not take a chance.

I started doing this in
I have met hundreds of people, live and in person. That I first met online. Since February of 2006.

The most important thing I have learned is that both men and women complain about the exact same things. It is a long list. Bad human behaviors, we are socialized to assign these behaviors to groups. In reality they appear in most humans.

Humans are not perfect. Although I have met hundreds who think they are.

^^^^ that is the most important lesson ^^^^^^

No one is perfect, human frailties are just that. Human, not linked by gender, ethnicity, social class or income .

I believe that our current social structure is horrifically flawed. 95% of global media is controlled by 6 mega corporations. Research on your own. Truth is not their goal, profits are. The for profit media only wants you to consume. That is their purpose..... Promote the consumer society.

As much as I detest admiring to having made a mistake, I can, far to often through the decades.

Can you?

I'm incredibly skeptical of the things that: "everybody knows"....

If you are not seeking a completely compatable, open, honest, lifetime bond. I am likely not who thou seek.

If you understand the expression:

The devil is in the details.

That stuff is down there.

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The keys to a truly intimate connection;


Tolerance, acceptance, honesty, openness, equality, commitment, being open yourself. Intimacy, trust, knowing that you can be vulnerable.
Someone who is comfortable, who makes us feel, tranquility, satisfaction, joy, comfort and ease. Who feels right

Looking into the mirror to discover where change begins.

Experience life. Walking, experiencing, noticing beauty and goodness, or trying to, living it. Laughing at humans and puppies, and myself.

Learning, awareness, laughing.

Living immersed in nature, experiencing life, traveling to new places.

I am built to be a giver. Which means that I am also in need of another giver. I find that giving increases the energy level not only of both. That it is capable of building on itself. Enhancing both lives. That is one of the best things about creating connection.

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Caution: beyond here there be dragons. ;-)
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FROM THIS POINT ON
It is just details, if you WANT to know more.

I started my search in 1986. It would be amazing to find a person who values. Actual honest communication.

Yin yang. Know it, practise it, accept it as reality.

Do not throw stones. We all live in glass houses.

Mark Twain AKA Samuel Clemens was spot on correct:
"It is far easier to tell the truth. Than to remember who you told what lies to."


I like: Things that are done well and beautifully. Cooking, music, painting, photography, any human creation, that is done well, with feeling and talent. This is why I do not have favorites. A favorite lessens everything else in that category of living. I believe.

Regarding tobacco, in my opinion stress is far worse than many or even any of the others things we do to ourselves. Is it better or worse than high fat, or processed food? Incessant tv watching? Alcohol? Drugs, including prescription drugs, caffeine, sugar, lack of exercise?

Anger, hurry, worry, fear and negativity.
Cause stress. If you use, or allow them into your life. It has detrimental effects and affects.

Yadda, yadda yadda. I do mention not being perfect up there^^^. Some where.

All I have to say is that like ingesting pot, alcohol or other things. Is a personal choice. Use is different from abuse. I believe that it is far worse to have a chocolate or coffee addiction. And NOT pay attention to the source.

As slavery is used extensively in growing an harvesting them.

Than ingesting traditional mood altering chemicals. Walking the walk is important. It means more that talk.

Skip all below this, it is mere details. Anything below this.

Awareness of ignorance is the best cure for ignorance. I know and understand that the more I learn, the more ignorant I become.

I lust for knowing the truth. I learned in 5th grade that the only way to be sure of what was true. Was to do my own research. Since then I have through formal education and as an autodidact learned more about a wider variety of subjects to a greater depth than very few that I have ever met. In fact I have only met one person in the past 40 years with a similar knowledge base. We had a lot of fun. Sharing what the other was less aware of....

All of this knowledge reinforces for me, just how ignorant I am of so many things.

I like intelligence. Please understand that looking in the mirror is where the way to create true lasting change in the entire world and society starts. More importantly it's where the solutions come from.

My experience in living life is that many people love to make problems.

My bad I'm a radical.

Except during these last years radicals have suddenly become reactionaries, how strange.

I also treasure an open mind, as is the ability to adapt and accept vital truths. Vital to growth, learning and interacting.

Following the herd mentality brought us; rule by royalty, sexism, racism, 98% of all wars, really the vast majority of social problems arise from top down rule, which is why the herd mentality was instigated. To control masses of people.
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Our greatest power, and asset as a species is our cooperative endeavors.

Which is why this is the age of disinformation. Disinformation keeps the individuals in conflict with one another. Which destroys their ability to cooperate.

This is the one simple fact that most ignore and are unaware of.

How do you propose to solve anything without a cooperative effort?

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If you really want to be shocked:

Read this......... https://docs.google.com/document/d/1lBTUQM3YXlDkiAAG1UMkpfd0he4g8CMzUGWzClcPqGo/edit?usp=sharing

I can not remember not being motivated to be on a conscious path. As far as I can recall nearly my entire life I have been taught, told and given to understand that living on the conscious path was what a good human did. Or at least strives to do.

If you are going to do something do it to the best of your abilities, or don't even try. I am ok with that as a goal.

living life and enjoying it.

Become a better person

Find a compatable mate.

My puppy owner, well she thinks that she is. Controlling bitch.🐬🐬🐬🐬

Cantkyia That is { kant key a } it means LOVE in Lakota: she is a Border collie, boxer and American Stafford terrier. Watch out for her eyes, that is how she tries to control you. 🐬🐬🐬🐬 ;) A knowledge of semantics is always handy.

Its a story, isn't all of life? A series of stories. Mine sure is, lots of comedy,some tragedy, some actual true adventure, (as in risk of losing life and dangerous, the dictionary definition of adventure), travel, romance, action, typical dull and boring.

She is also my ex's dog. I agreed to get her to symbolize our recommendment to each other. One morning I woke up and the ex, my car and some of her stuff was gone. The puppy was curled up p asleep against my back.......

Dolphins in favor of protecting the humans🐬🐬🐬